Using suspense to improve phone sex talk is not only smart but also something that many people learn to do as they expand their experiences. There are a few different ways that will be noted here to help utilize suspense well.
1. Use Of Suspense Before Touching New Erotic Areas Of The Body In A Phone Sex Chat
That moment before your tongue starts to lick the sweet nectar of her sensitive pussy is perfect for suspense. Focus on some of the areas around, like the inner thighs.
Also, don’t be afraid to spend more time talking about how your tongue is getting closer and closer to her clit, not touching it but ever so close. There are other body parts as well that you can build into, kissing up to the neck and towards the ears is another example.
Another fantastic suggestion is bringing your lips close to her ears and adding a pause just after saying “I whisper in your ear,” before saying something that you want to do to her.
2. Use Edging As A Phone Sex Strategy
This works particularly well if there is communication about when you both want to orgasm beforehand. It can be verbally added in by saying things like “My fingers are inside of you feeling you tighten up around them as I lick your pussy.
I feel you getting closer, and slow down slightly, leaving you just on the brink of orgasm, but not letting you yet. I look up at your eyes and smile. Speeding up again as you get closer and closer.”
These types of things are great, especially when the other person is following along as part of the phone sex chat fun, delaying their orgasm. This can lead to much more intense orgasms when they happen.
In some kinky phone sex chats, and others as well, asking permission to cum can be part of the pre-phone-sex conversation.
Suspense is a fantastic addition to live chat with girls and one that should definitely be tried out.
