So, you have caught her attention and invested your emotions into the relationship – only to find that she is ignoring you. There are many reasons why she may be ignoring you.
It could be a simple case of boredom in the relationship. She might be tired of the dreary routine and is looking for some spark to ignite things again.
1. She is busy
When she says she is busy, it does not necessarily mean that she is ignoring you. She may be going through a tough time in her life and has a lot of work on her hands. This could be due to her career or other personal issues. She might also be a student and has exams or projects to complete.
She might also be busy with her family or friends. She might be having guests over and is busy taking care of them. If you keep trying to talk to her when she is busy, it will only make her more reluctant to speak to you.
If you are too persistent in asking her out, she might feel uncomfortable and lose interest in you. She might be ignoring you to give you space and to avoid being seen as clingy or needy. She might be in a relationship and does not want to be distracted from her current commitments.
2. She is shy
If she’s shy, she might be ignoring you because she’s nervous about talking to you. This is a sign that she likes you and wants to talk to you but is too afraid to do so. She might fake cough or clear her throat to fill in the awkward silence, she may also avoid eye contact with you and will look at the clock, whiteboard or her friends to keep herself distracted.
She may also avoid physical contact with you, but that doesn’t mean she is not into you. She might unintentionally bump into you in crowded halls or her hands might brush against yours in class without her trying. She is also likely to follow you on social media and comment and like your posts. This is a way for her to low key stalk you without being too creepy.
She might be giving you mixed signals, but if she’s interested in you then you should make the first move!
3. She is not interested in you
If she seems bored with you and you can see that she doesn’t even care to text you back, it is time to take the hint. Every relationship tends to get boring after a while and it is essential that you recognize the signs and do something about them.
If you want her, then you have to make her feel excited about you again. Show her how much you love her and tell her how special she is to you.
She will definitely fall in love with you again, if she really does. If you can’t convince her of this, then it is probably best that you stop chasing her. After all, you don’t want to give her false hope and end up hurting her. Just remember that she can be ignoring you because she is busy, shy, or simply doesn’t like you. So, choose your path wisely and move forward with your life! Kristen Buccigrossi is a writer whose work has been published on Huffington Post, Pittsburgh Tribune-Review, Unwritten and more.
4. She is frustrated with you
Being ignored by your girlfriend can be a very painful experience. It can leave you confused and stressed out, not knowing what to do. It can also cause you to question the strength of your relationship and if it is really what you want.
If she is ignoring you, she may be frustrated with you. She may have felt that you are being too clingy and needy. She may have been hurt by some of the things that you have said or done in the past.
If this is the case, it is important to talk to her about what is going on. Try to calmly discuss the problem and work out solutions together. Be sure not to be aggressive or defensive, as this will only make her more frustrated with you. Explain to her that you are sorry and that you will change your ways. Tell her that you love and respect her, and that you want to make the relationship work.